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Nice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office: 101 Unconscious Mistakes Women Make That Sabotage Their Careers
Lois P. Frankel
Rating: 4.5/5 Stars
Rank: 625
Nice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office: 101 Unconscious Mist (Memphis, TN United States) March 17, 2004 - 5.0/5 stars
This book has been all that I hoped for and more. The book, in a nutshell,
basically says that to get ahead in life, in career, in everything, women
need to stop acting like little girls.Replete with examples from Ms. Frankel's consulting clients, this book gives practical, no-holds-barred
evaluations of such behaviours as feeding people at the office, working
too hard, asking questions instead of making statements, and "asking
permission." That last was a revelation to me. As Ms. Frankel
points out, we are all raised in a society that says you should get proper
approvals before taking a step---any step.
But men learn when to ask and
when to just go ahead. Men learn how to apply the rubric "It's easier
to get forgiveness than to get permission." Ms. Frankel pointes out
that children, not adults, ask for permission to do perfectly rational
things. I had never considered how detrimental to my career the habit of
asking permission had been.
But I decided to give Ms. Frankel's
suggestions a try. I went to my boss and said, "I cannot come in on
Friday." My boss looked nonplussed.
I was petrified, but proud. I had
done it. I had Made A Statement instead of Seeking Approval. And he didn't
demur.
He said, "Okay," and we went on with the day. If you
are feeling frustrated by the glass ceiling, if you feel stuck and can't
figure out why you can't get further in your career ambitions (and if
you're a female), this book is definitely worth the investment.
It opened
my eyes to things I did that I never even thought about, things that
presented an image of an incompetent child---not a competent, composed,
and capable woman.
My image is now improving, and yours can too.
Customer Review: 6 of 33
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![]() | | 5. | A lot of people will find this book helpful! | | (LA. Calif. USA) March 19, 2004 - 5.0/5 stars | | I think a lot of people (both mean and women), will fin, "Nice Girls
Don't Get The Corner Office:101 Unconscious Mistakes Women Make That
sabotage Their Careers," by Lois P. Frankel both interesting and
helpful. I know I did. |
![]() | | Current Review | | 6. | Nice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office: 101 Unconscious Mist | | (Memphis, TN United States) March 17, 2004 - 5.0/5 stars | | This book has been all that I hoped for and more. The book, in a nutshell,
basically says that to get ahead in life, in career, in everything, women
need to stop acting like little girls.Replete with examples from... read full review |
![]() | | 7. | Grown Up Women Unite! | | (Los Angeles, CA. USA) February 24, 2004 - 5.0/5 stars | | Don't be put off by this title! This book addresses the adult woman in
the workplace. This is a read by an author who clearly has made her own
way in the world of work and has helped many other women to... read full review |
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